It does not matter. In olden days, in India, when a widower was remarried the age difference wud be even more than 30 years, but they were still happy with each other and had no problems in having kids also!!
to me the age is more important than age difference. If the bride is 18 and the groom is 33 then its a little gross by my standards. I think that an 18 year old should not be with someone older than 22, just because of life experiences. 4 years isn't a big difference but their life experience is. The 18 year old is in or just gradated high school, but the 22 year old should have just graduated college and start thinking about a career, whereas the 18 year old is just thinking about a major...You see what I mean? but to me once your 21 all bets are off..
I just remembered there is a formula for that. you take a mans age cut it in half and add seven and this is the youngest socially accepted age a man can date. For example a man is 22 you take half which is 11 and add 7 which is 19 and 19 is the youngest a 22 year old man should date.
Yes there is a problem with this big an age gap. You might find that you have very little in common. Things he might remember fondly will have happened before you were born, In a few years he might not have the energy to be able to keep up with a young wife and he might become sick and need more of a nurse just as the wife is coming into her prime.
This is not true in every case and you do not state your ages. If you are very young you must consider that your man could be a borderling pedophile who will not want you as you mature.
Whatever floats your boat. A lot of people who have a huge age difference (like the 15 years you mentioned) will find that they have more differences than similarities. For example, a youthful, energetic 25 year old could be paired with a wrinkly, mid-life-crists 40 year old... Yuck. Also, if one of them has children, the new spouse may only be a few years older, which would cause family tension.
My husband and I are 4 years to the week apart and we've not had any major problems.
The older you are, the less it matters.
For example, if the groom was 60 and the bride was 45 - nobody would bat an eye. And it wouldn't matter at all. They would both be mature adults with a keen sense of what they want out of life.
If the bride were 18 and the groom 33, there would be some issue. An 18 year old is hardly a mature adult and a man of 33 should be comfortably into their career and making a life for himself.
if you mean in sexual compatibility, I don't think so as long as they're over age.
but mental and emotional compatibility is a whole other matter. a person 15 years older than another is often more established, more mature. but if they're both established then I don't think there should be a problem. as long as they are BOTH adults!
If they're both legal adults, then technically it doesn't matter.
However, there is a BIG difference between a 40 year-old marrying a 55 year-old, versus a 19 year-old marrying a 34 year-old. The latter is just gross.
There's no such thing as age different, cos everyone is different from each other. As long as you guys are able to get along, committed, trust n love each other, tats enough to make a marriage work. All the best n congrats.
After a few years,it will be a great problem.Just imagine a 40 yr.female,which becomes more demanding at this age,with a 65 yr.old exhausted male.
There is no problem. I know 2 or 3 couples who are 13 or 14 years apart. My mom and dad are almost 10 years apart. If you love someone, it doesn't really matter.
It is very rare to find love.
Age does not matter.
If you find love, you are lucky.
Good Luck.
yes it is acceptable by medical science and who cares about age
there is no such acceptable difference and 15 years younger wife is fine
If they are above 18, there is no any restriction.
As long as she is over 25 years of age.
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As long as they are both over 18, who cares about age?
As long as they are grown, who cares about age. Its just a number
as long as they be adult over 18 .
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