File a complaint under Sec 498 & 498(A) with the Police.
Everything should start from an individual. And let that be YOU.
We as an individual (male or female) should start discouraging these kind of practices to bring this to an end.
The parents of the bride give money and things for their satisfaction that their daughter could use it when she needs it. But this has turned ugly today.
Who ever demands money for marriage are simply lazy people. Who wants to live on others hardship. Why want to marry or get into such lazy families.
These people are not marrying the girls to lead a happy life rather they're marrying for the money. The girls life after marriage is definitely not secured after the marriage. The groom who is keeping shut during all these deals is indirectly responsible.
There are thousands of good hearts out there who don't demand money, who respect people and where the girls life will be better off. All it takes is to get across different races, religions and castes.
The bride's parents are partly to be blamed b'cos they don't want cross marriages and they're ready to pay the money the groom's side are demanding to push their girl away.
They probably feel that they're giving a good life for their girl from their hardship. But it doesn't turn out that way.
So please turn down these kind of money faced people. There are plenty of good hearts who're serious in leading in good family life if we're prepared to go across the religions, race and caste.
So lets start it from ourselves.
In india in any part when a girl takes birth peole say in different languages that laxmi has come.
a girls parent have 21 years (till marriage) to create power of laxmi by proper training.
those girls who have power of laxmi(finacial power) are never cursed in india. they r more welcome in in- laws then in mothers home.
A girl & her parents must know that she is born to b gruhlaxmi and if she can not develop laxmi power in her she ll not b welcomed in in-laws.
why in -laws the same understanding works when girls brothers wife' s case is for consideration.
Hence a bride should enliven laxmi power when in laws start demanding more dowry and money.
That is the only alternate.
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Is it a question to be asked by you, when daily newspapers report on such matters. The law is very stringent over these types of accusations from bride's side. There is no way out for the groom's paternal family members, once the bride or any near- relations of her maternal family side lodge complain before Police over the issue. My best suggestion would be to please give an oppertunity to the in-laws of the bride by warning them of your intention of complaint before police, if they, further harass her over dowry issue.
it has been done whee even on the wedding day the bride wil back out of the wedding. If she has a strong support of her family (mother and father) and they dont see it as a shame on them that she back out it would b best.
If the in laws r this way befoe the wedding i would only hate to see them after........NIGHTMARE.
all women in India should learn how to backout of the wedding if they get pushy in laws.
i have seen it done before, but only when her parents are supportive and give her positive self esteem
She can go to family court and can file a suit regarding the domestic violence . or she should seek divorce or she can complain to national commission for women
it is only because of that people who have no responsibility like sister & daughter.If these type of situation raise then after an adjustable time she has to take an judicial action because govt. &many other association are stands with her.
Whoaaaa, that's crazy.
Fast disappearing I hope! How common is it?
get them before they get her!
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