How do I plan a fabulous bachelorette party for the conservative bride in her small hometown?

My best friend is getting married and I have the great honor of planning her bachelorette party. She lives in a small town with very few venue options. I want her party to be great, but she is very conservative...I have never planned a party like this....help please!??

I know a conservative bride, and her bridesmaids booked a suite at a local hotel. Actually it was a Residence Inn type suite so they would have plenty of bedroom/bathroom space. They went to dinner, went swimming, played games, watched movies, and had all sorts of old fashioned slumber party fun. They told her it was her last slumber party before marriage. She loved it!

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How about a dinner and then some dance lessons? You can do something raunchy like pole dancing or striptease, or something more conservative like salsa. Most dance instructors will do private lessons, and may even be able to help provide partners (if not, all the girls can partner up with each other for ballroom/salsa dancing).

Spa days are also nice if you can book off the entire morning or afternoon so that only your party will be there.

Is there a local theatre performing something fun any time soon? Dinner and a show would also be lovely.

I loved mine and I guess you could call me "conservative".

My girls made a whole day of it. Here's our itinerary:

- Brunch around 10am

- Paint your own pottery place for a couple hours (they picked out pieces to give me as a wedding gift)

- Afternoon snack of cheese and fruit at a wine tasting

- Pedicures and manicures

- Quick stop to change outfits and off to a fancy dinner

It was so much fun spending a whole day with my best friends!

Ask her her favorite restaurant. Book a private room to that restaurant. Have appetizers served (meals paid by the guests) as well as coffee, water and tea. Use her favorite color or the colors of the wedding to decorate. Get a cake in those colors. Supply goodie bags with lotions, lip glosses, body sprays, candles etc.

you could make it a lingerie party, where the guests bring her something to wear on the honeymoon. or a pleasure party. it's like a tuperware party for sex toys. there's always strippers. or for something low key, a spa day.