Becoming a Blushing Bride

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Walking down the aisle is perhaps one of the most earnest dreams of every woman. From little girls who imagine marrying Prince Charming to the lovely ladies who wish to exchange vows with the love of their lives - there are just so many who long to be a blushing bride.

To many, the bride is the center of the wedding, the belle of the nuptial and the star of the romantic event. In fact, surveys show that the second most anticipated moment of the wedding is the moment the bride shows up in her beautiful gown. The only moment that beats it is the couple's kiss after they are declared man and wife. Just the same, every bride owns the spotlight on her wedding day and her wedding night. Her groom, guests and bridesmaids indulge her to wallow in everyone's attention and affection.

As a bride, the woman wants to make sure that the wedding she has is the one of her dreams. Many brides prefer traditional white gowns and simple gold bands in lovely churches. Others on the other hand want to get married beside the sea or in plush gardens. There are also others who want to tie the knot on top of towering skyscrapers or even underwater. No matter what a bride picks, one thing is certain. She will exhaust all possible options just to get what she wants. This is just the nature of every beautiful blushing bride.

Since being a bride is a phenomenal event in a woman's life, many females also face the pressure which comes with it. From petty problems like losing weight before the wedding and major dilemmas like getting cold feet - the negative possibilities are simply endless. Sometimes, brides even tend to worry about the more unimportant things. Obsessing over bridal gowns, reception themes and others are some major "bridezilla" syndromes which suck out the joy in all weddings. If this happens to you, or a bride that happens to be dear to you, just remind yourself, or them, that the wedding is not about the gown or the guests. It's about two people celebrating their undying love for each other - no more and no less.

However, every bride must face and overcome these troubles in order to become a happy woman. The important thing here is to make sure that a bride's impending marriage is done for reasons of true love at the right moment and time. Otherwise, it is always better to postpone being a blushing bride for a more suitable time or sometimes, a more suitable man. It may sound harsh at first, but a harsh realization is sometimes better than being a blinded bride forever.

These are the things every girl needs to know when it comes to making their bridal dreams come true. Remember, it takes a lifetime of love and life before finally getting started on that one minute wedding march of a lifetime.

Mark Clayson is a widely read physician who has a variety of interests.