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If you have heard stories in the past about men dating Russian brides who have been taken advantage of financially, it is natural for you to have those concerns for yourself as you enjoy the dating process as well. While this is a legitimate concern, there are ways to protect yourself until you have officially taken your bride home and entered the happy marriage you ultimately desire.
1. Do not wire money! If you are asked by a women of any nationality to make a substantial wire transfer of money, you simply should not do it. There is no way to reverse these money transfers, and you cannot verify who is picking up the money on the other end or what they will do with the money. It is in your own best interest not to send money this way, no matter what the circumstances may be.
Dating a Russian bride is not about how much money you can send them or promise when they say "I do." It is about making legitimate love connections that will last for years to come, and it should in no way include you sending large amounts of money to women you do not know very well. If a woman seems insistent that you send her money to continue a relationship than ask yourself what kind of a relationship you really desire in the end. Chances are, she is not the best girl for you.
2. Do not pay for things until you really know a woman. If you are dating a Russian bride who seems to expect you to pay for things on their behalf, you need to use the same logic mentioned above. You should not be required to buy her love, and if she expects you to do so consider whether that is the type of relationship you really want to have. You are building the foundation for your future right now, and trying to buy her off is not a stable founding point. If she seems more interested in what you can pay for her than who you are as a person, then that should tell you something about what she is after in the relationship.
However, do not confuse this advice with Russian dating etiquette! When you finally meet your Russian bride, you WILL be expected to pay for all expenses on your dates. Do not think of this as being used, because it is not the case. It is the tradition in Russian culture that men pay all expenses when on a date. In addition to this, you will be expected to pay her travel and accommodation expenses as well. Quite simply, most Russian women do not earn enough to pay for airfares and hotel accommodation - in particular if you meet in a city such as Moscow or St. Petersburg!
3. Don't fall for legitimate-sounding pleas for financial help. There are professional scam artists out there who aim to take advantage of your search for real love. They have no shame in leading you to believe they are a hot young girl who wants to marry you, all the while they are actually male and possibly already living in your country! If you are dating a Russian bride and come across a woman who is constantly asking for money for various reasons, your alarm should go off.
If you do get a request from money from a woman you have gotten to know and really do trust, you should test the situation a little to see that she is being real with you. One easy way to do this is to decline sending money one time. If you have already sent her money and the requests for more and more just keep coming, then it is a good idea to tell her you cannot do it the next time she asks. A scam artist is going to assume they have used you for all they can get and you will likely never hear from them again.
4. Use common sense! Whenever you are in doubt as to whether you are being fleeced or enticed by a legitimate love interest, always rely on common sense. There is a general sense of character that can be judged with time getting to know someone, and you should pay attention to those little feelings in all instances. The worst feeling in the world is dating a Russian bride who turns out to be after your money, not a real marriage in the future. You can often save yourself this pain just by tuning into your natural cues that tell you when something may be off with a particular woman.
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