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Saturday, January 1, 2011

Wedding Customs Throughout History From Kissing The Bride To Flowers Associated With Weddings


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The legend concerning kissing as part of the ceremony

There is a story that the custom was for the priest to kiss the groom after the ceremony. The groom then kissed the bride, the priest kissed his assistants, and they kissed the guests!

The tradition regarding the white bridal gown

The lovely silk illusion veil of today has evolved out of a series of Oriental customs from past ages. Once, in Far Eastern countries, people believed that wicked spirits were especially attracted to women. So, as protection from the Evil Eye, women always wore veils. The custom continued although the feeling behind it changed with time into a role of modesty and obedience. From this the veil developed into a symbol of chastity. Then it became accepted as a sign of the submission of women.

The introduction of the veil into Europe came through returning Crusaders. In early wedding traditions in Europe, the bride was bargained for through her father, was swathed in a bridal veil, and revealed to her mate after the ceremony!

In early centuries, Hebrew, Greek and Roman brides wore veils of many hues and veils threaded with gold and silver. In Southern Europe, early Christians placed a large cloth over both bride and groom. In Anglo-Saxon times, the bride wore her hair hanging loose as part of the wedding ritual. The Chinese held a sacred umbrella over the bride's head. Around 1500 in Europe, there was a fashionable conical headdress topped with a veil that hung to the toes. Each era has revealed a different style for the bridal veil. Now the bride prefers a transparent one that does not conceal her hair.

The origin of the trousseau

The trousseau can be directly traced back to the barter-price, purchase-price and dowry systems. It was customary for a bride to come to her husband well-provided with a dowry, so that the man might be compensated for his expenses in caring for the children of his wife's lineage. In our present time in this country, it is not thought essential that a bride bring to her husband money or land, but she is usually provided with a good supply of personal clothing, household linen, silver, china, etc., although much of this also comes along as wedding presents and the meaning of flowers.

The origin of the wedding gifts

The tradition is also closely related to the bride's dowry. In all societies and in all centuries, the celebrations attending the marriage ceremony included the exchange of gifts, even if only of food. By Saxon and Elizabethan times, it was customary to bestow upon the bride various items of hardware which she carried in her belt, such as bodkins, knives, scissors, pinchers, scales, etc. There is record of wedding gift-giving as far back as the Norman Conquest. Among the peasants, gifts were understood to be loans which the couple was expected to return once they were established. As the feudal lord grew in power, he passed laws requiring that all those dependent upon him make generous gifts for his children's marriages. He even arranged for the Church to act as record-keeper for him to insure that no one escaped from "giving" his share.

How Flowers are associated with a wedding

Throughout history, most celebrations of weddings, whether pagan or Christian, use flowers in some way. Almost every country has its own traditions and symbolism concerning flowers.

Popular contemporary customs associate the orange blossoms most closely to the wedding ceremony. The wearing of a wreath of orange blossoms as a crown over the bridal veil was a Saracen custom introduced by returning Crusaders. Orange blossoms were so expensive that only the wealthy could afford them and poorer brides resorted to artificial ones. A "kissing knot" of croton leaves and rosemary was hung over the bridal couple in Elizabethan England. In Sweden it was believed necessary to put chives, garlic or rosemary in the bride's bouquet to keep the dwarfs from bothering her on her wedding day! In Poland it was believed that to sprinkle the bride's bouquet with sugar would keep her temper sweet. In Rome, roses and marigolds were used to decorate the bride's home. Here are some of the "meanings" associated with certain flowers:

Apple blossoms or quince blossoms: better things to come

Clematis: love vine

Ivy: good luck

Rosebud: a promise

Myrtle: lover's flower

Laurel: peace

Tulips: infidelity

Yellow flowers of any kind: jealousy




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Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Wedding Customs Throughout History From Tossing Of The Bride Her Bouquet To Honeymoons


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The tradition of tossing the Bride's bouquet

The significance, as everyone knows, is that the one who catches it will be the next to marry! Originally, it was not a bouquet but a garter that was tossed. This custom of tossing the garter originated in 14th century France. However even when the bride left it dangling around her ankle in order to make the snatching easy, she was considerably mauled. For a time a stocking was tossed, but its removal was neither easy nor graceful. Finally some bride, whose identity has been lost to us, thought of tossing her bouquet and this custom has been followed ever since. Even now, however, some grooms like to follow the old garter tossing custom so that the ushers as well as the bridesmaids may know who among them will be next to marry.


The origin of the wedding reception and wedding refreshments

Marriage feasts have been in existence nearly as long as marriage ceremonies. The early Greeks had a feast at the end of the wedding procession when the bride was conducted to her new home at night. Although usually the Greek custom was not to include women at their banquets, they were invited to wedding feasts.


The wedding cake

This was always an important part of any wedding feast. Where or when it first originated cannot be told it is so ancient a custom. Among certain American Indian tribes, and among the Fiji Islanders, a bride offered her husband a cake of meal. The Romans broke a cake made of salted meal over the bride's head as a symbol of abundance. Many peoples of various nations customarily dropped wheat, flour or cake upon the bride's head, then ate these offerings for good luck. The early Britons baked large baskets of small dry crackers for weddings, and every guest took one home thus the tradition of taking wedding cake home to "dream on." The small cakes gradually increased in size and richness, and, so the story is told, a French chef in London finally had the idea of icing the mass of cakes together the first English-French wedding cake. During the reign of Charles II in England, the elaborate, highly ornamented wedding cakes as we know them first came into being.


Throwing rice, old shoes and other things

The rice-throwing is closely related to the wedding cake itself in fact throwing grain preceded the baking of cakes and the cake developed from that earlier practice. The throwing of grain seemed to involve two symbols, good luck and fertility or abundance.

Among the ancient Assyrians and Jews, when a bargain was made, a man gave his sandal as an indication of good faith. A shoe was the symbol of authority. When the Anglo-Saxons hurled a shoe, it indicated that authority had been transferred. Some authorities believe that the throwing of a shoe can be traced back to the missiles which the bride's father hurled at the robber caveman.


Seating arrangements at weddings

It is said that the practice of seating the groom's family and friends on the right and the bride's on the left derived from the custom of seating honoured guests on the right of the host. On the wedding day, the bride's parents are hosts and the groom's are the honoured guests.

The Bachelor Dinner

This appears to have had its source in Sparta. A Spartan groom always invited his close friends to a supper on the eve of his wedding. The custom is very old and many believe it originated simultaneously in many different lands.

Engraved invitations or announcements

Many centuries ago the monastic schools kept marriage books for royalty. These records were made in the very beautiful handwriting of the monks. Later, formal invitations were issued by Royalty in this handwriting, referred to as script. In 1620 copper plate engraving of script writing was first achieved and gradually the custom evolved of engraved rather than hand written invitations to weddings and other formal affairs.

The Honeymoon

This tradition is as old as from the caveman era, once the man had abducted his bride, he kept her carefully hidden until her father's tribesmen gave up the pursuit and permitted their tempers to cool. Among certain northern European peoples in early centuries, a newly married couple drank a wine made of mead and honey, known as metheglin, for a month after their marriage. A month was then a "moon," and therefore the month during which the wine was drunk became known as the honeymoon. Among certain peoples, seclusion from the world after the marriage ceremony was definitely part of the marriage rites.
Today all couples who can afford it travel to their honeymoon straight after the wedding party has finished.




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Thursday, April 8, 2010

Spanish Wedding Customs


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Weddings are joyous occasions around the world. Each country will have its own unique customs and traditions. Some of the most festive weddings anywhere take place in Spain.

Like the United States, Spain is a country that has regional differences. This means that although some customs are universal, each area will have its own unique traditions as well. You will see regional specialties reflected in wedding cuisine, flowers, and attire.

It was customary for a Spanish bride to wear a black silk gown with a black lace veil, which represented the "til death do us part" section of the vows. Many brides these days, though, may choose to wear the white gown that Americans are used to seeing. In Andalusia, some brides choose to wear a ruffled Flamenco style dress, in honor of that beloved dance. It is traditional for the bride to embroider a shirt for the groom to wear to the wedding.

If you were to walk into a bridal shop in Spain, one thing that you would notice is that the gowns there are all designed to have special and interesting details. You will not find too many of the plainer gowns that many American brides favor. Spanish brides are not afraid to dress up! That means gowns with ruffles, lace, or beadwork will a full set of bridal jewelry to match. Earrings with pizazz are an especially popular type of bridal jewelry. And no Spanish bridal ensemble would be complete without a gorgeous lace mantilla veil.

Flowers are an important part of any wedding. In Spain, you will tend to find that different types of flowers are used in the different regions of the country. For instance, in Seville, brides favor orange blossoms, which are known both for their wonderful scent and associations with fertility. Brides in Andalusia often carry pink and white roses, and all white bouquets are usually chosen by Castillian brides.

In many European countries, a wedding is a celebration that lasts well into the wee hours of the morning, and Spain is no exception. Ceremonies there often start much later than in the United States; a 7pm ceremony would not be uncommon. This makes sense when you remember that the Spanish are accustomed to eating a very late evening meal. Speaking of the wedding dinner, it will tend to feature local specialities, such as paella near the seashore. Red sangria is popular nationwide, as is a rich sponge cake with fruit and almonds for dessert.

One of the more unique wedding customs in Spain involves the exchange of a special box containing thirteen gold coins. These coins, which are blessed by the priest, symbolize Jesus and the twelve Apostles. In addition, the gold coins, which are given to the bride by the groom, represent that he will take care of her financially. The couple will also exchange wedding bands, which are worn on the right hand instead of the left.

Spanish weddings are very fun parties. Guest lists are usually large, and the dancing to the mariachi band will last into the next morning. The bride and groom dance a traditional wedding dance called the sequidillas manchegas. Favors usually include cigars for the gentlemen and something scented for the ladies. You can also expect firecrackers in celebration of the new marriage.

Whether you are looking for a way to honor your Spanish heritage or are just looking for some ways to make your wedding more fun, the wedding customs of Spain are a great place to start. There are many similarities between weddings in the United States and Spain, but there are also some things that are wonderfully unique to a Spanish marriage celebration. One thing is for sure: the people of Spain know how to throw a great party!




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Monday, March 22, 2010

Old Wedding Customs and Traditions, Some Updated for the Modern Bride and Groom


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Most cultures celebrate the love, devotion and commitment called wedding, with unique customs and traditions. Because the wedding is a wonderful and touching event, brides and grooms want both ceremony and reception to be personalized and unique to them. Thus, they look for meaningful experiences and often adopt customs and traditions of cultures other than their own.

In this article you'll read specifically about the wedding cake(s) and how they evolved, traditional anticipated and acceptable wedding money game, and interesting customs relating to wedding attire.

bride or wedding cake

The wedding cake tradition goes back many centuries to ancient times. Originally it represented fertility. Ancient Romans would cake was made of wheat or barley. Though the actual procedure is unclear, the custom was to break it over the bride's head as a symbol of her fertility. Like just about anything else, the wedding cake evolved over time. Since the Roman wedding cake has passed various transitions. One of the major ones is that of stacking several cakes of different sizes atop one another, as tall as possible. The challenge was for the bride and groom to kiss over this tower without knocking it over. Another important transition occurred when the cake became palatable, iced and decorated. In modern times, the cake has a cake top that represents the bride and groom, their interests or wedding theme and even children. Traditionally the top layer of the cake is to be placed in the freezer and eaten on the first anniversary.

Groom

Southern wedding tradition enriched the wedding scene with A cake for the groom. Originally, Southern Belles ordered special single layer cakes for their beaus. Today it has become an integral part many weddings. However, this cake that is usually frosted in a dark color (chocolate is a popular choice) and represent his personality or interests, is usually kept secret. The groom who does not suspect that there will be a cake in his honor is often surprised to discover it at the rehearsal dinner or wedding reception.

Children

With more and more FAMILY weddings, it has become quite popular for brides and grooms who have children to have a special single layer cake for the children. These cake designated to the kids in the wedding, are often frosted in their favorite colors and topped with a cake top that depicts a family. Many parents add inscriptions. Some choice inscriptions are:
  • The first names of all - children, bride and groom and the wedding date

  • Today we are a family - and wedding date.

  • A family since - Date of wedding Date

  • Welcome to the family - Love mom and... or Dad and... or first names and date.

    This cake may be served to their friends.

  • Auction Anyone?

    At the wedding reception in the upper Midwestern states, the best man - not the groom - auctions the garter instead of tossing it .He carries a hat around the reception site and guests put dollar bills in it. The bills are counted and the amount of money accumulated revealed. A specified time frame is announced and after it has elapsed, the best man gives the garter to the last person to put money in the hat. This and the money dance, raise money for the honeymoon and / or establishing a home.

    Another fun idea that is perfect for outdoors weddings is the Picnic Basket auction. Remember the movie "Oklahoma"?

    Money Dance

    Originating from most European countries, the Money Dance has become so popular across all weddings that a special Purse - Money Bag is one of the items present with the wedding accessories collection. Called in the USA the Dollar Dance, is where male guests "pay" to dance with the bride. Various methods are used by different cultures. In some, the bride carries a Purse and the dancers place monetary bills in it, in others the dancers pin the bills on the wedding gown, yet in others, the maid of honor wears an apron and collects the money given by the guests to dance with the bride. In all traditions, the guests are expected to be generous when "paying" for a dance with the bride. since the money collected is to be used by the newly weds on their honeymoon and for setting a household.

    The money dance is so widely accepted as an integral part of a wedding, that most guests anticipate that it will be included in the celebration providing a way for brides and grooms to generate cash without requesting or even suggesting money as wedding gifts.

    NOTE: We at A-wedding Day have received many inquiries regarding the proper way to ask wedding guests to give money instead of gifts. The answer to ALL was the same. There is NO proper way. It is tacky if and in bad taste. DO NOT do it!!!

    Attire

    Brides in many Latin-American countries wear a light blue slip beneath their dresses.
    In many Latin-American countries as well as in in many Latin-American countries the flower girls and ring bearer may be dressed as miniature versions of the bride and groom.

    Brides from Eastern Europe tend to wear a floral wreath rather than a tiara or crown. In fact, in a traditional Greek wedding, gold crowns but more often wreathes made of orange blossoms connected by silk ribbon, are placed on the heads of both bride and groom, considered king and queen for the day. They wear them throughout their entire wedding day.

    In Hawaiian weddings, both the bride and the groom dress in pure white, with the groom wearing either a red sash or a black cloth belt tied around his waist. Both bride and groom also wear flower leis, which symbolize love and respect. Each flower lei consists of 40 to 50 fresh flowers strung on a colorful ribbon and are one of the oldest symbols of Hawaiian culture.

    Veil

    The wedding veil which today is sheer, originated centuries ago and was not sheer. One theory is that the veil stems from the days when the Groom and his friends, the Groomsmen, would throw a blanket over the Brides head when he captured her.

    Another theory is that, during the time of arranged marriages, the Brides face was kept covered until after the ceremony. That way, the Groom was committed, and could not run off if he was disappointed in her looks.

    In some cultures the veil is worn to protect the Bride from evil spirits that might be floating around.

    There is also a reason why the veil is sheer. It goes back to the biblical story of Jacob who married Leah instead of his beloved Rachel. The custom of the day was for the groom to lift the bride's head and face covering after the marriage ceremony. Since Leah wore a cloth covering, Laban, Rachel and Leah's father, "switched"" brides as he wanted the oldest daughter to be the first to marry. So unbeknown to him Jacob was marrying the wrong bride.




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    Saturday, March 20, 2010

    Jewish Wedding Heritage, Customs and Traditions, Including the Ketubah, Chupah, Breaking Glass


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    Jewish Tradition

    Ever wondered about the Chuppah, Ketuba,
    and other Jewish wedding customs?

    Jewish tradition does not considers the wedding ceremony and the ensuing marriage as a mere social arrangement or contractual agreement, but as a full commitment to "sanctification" or "dedication." The Hebrew word kiddushin, stems from the word kadosh meaning holy. It indicates that what is happening is a holy spiritual bonding and that as of the wedding ceremony and throughout their lives, the couple have an exclusive relationship, that involves complete dedication to each other.

    Engagement

    When a Jewish couple, gets engaged to be married, the families usually announce the occasion and the wedding date with an engagement party. There is an almost un-heard of ritual performed by the bride's and groom's mothers to emphasize the seriousness of the commitment of the man and the woman who formally announced their plan to marry.
    It is, the act of breaking a ceramic plate. Customarily, the bride's mother and the groom's mother, drop the well wrapped plate onto a hard surface. Breaking the plate indicates that just as breaking the plate is final, so too the engagement is final, not to be terminated.

    It is customary, though not frequently practiced, that at that time of the engagement party, the families sign a contract, that declares the obligations of each side concerning the wedding. In the more traditional Jewish Circles, the bride and groom stop seeing each other, one week before the wedding. This, in order to have them miss each other. Thus, enhancing the joy of seeing each other at their wedding.If the ketubah is lost, a new one must be written.

    Before the wedding

    It is customary that on the Shabbat morning before the wedding, the groom is honored by being called up to the reading of the Torah in the synagogue or temple. After he recites the last blessing, members of the congregation throw candies and raisins at him to wish him a sweet life with his wife.
    Tradition calls for the bride and groom to fast on the day of their wedding, until after the ceremony. Though the reason given is so they purify their souls, the actual benefit is that though they may be nervous, neither will suffer a queezy stomach.

    Witnesses

    One of the most essential elements of the legal aspect of a Jewish wedding is the presence of witnesses. Proper witnesses are needed to observe the signing of all documents and contracts, the actual ceremony when the groom places the ring on his brides finger and recites the prescribed statement, and when the bride and groom now Mr, and Mrs. enter the celebration - reception.

    Ketuba

    The first thing usually done by the groom upon arrival, is the completion, signing and witnessing of the Ketubah - marriage contract.
    The authentic text of the Ketubah is the text written by Simeon ben Shetach in 80 B.C.E. and is in Aramaic, the language used by Jews during that period. Thus, historically, the ketubah marked a great leap forward in the thinking about the rights of women.
    You may call this contract an ancient pre-nuptial agreement since it details not only the husband's obligations to his wife concerning food, clothing, shelter and pleasure, it also creates a lien on all his property to pay her a sum of money and support, should he divorce her.

    The document is signed by the groom and witnessed by two people. It has the standing of a legally binding agreement, that in many countries is enforceable by secular law. If the ketubah is lost, a new one must be written.
    Like everything else, Ketubot (plural) have evolved in their form.
    In all but Orthodox Judaism The Ketuba can be presented in the traditional Arameic, Hebrew and - or English and both bride and groom can commit and sign. However, they still need two witnesses.
    The Ketubah is a document of the highest importance yet, thorough out history, it was proudly and prominently framed it and displayed in the home. Hence, since at least the fourteenth century, the Ketubah has evolved into a wonderful form of art. It is often calligraphed on an illuminated and illustrated manuscript that becomes a treasured family heirloom, to pass on to the following generations.

    Unveiling the bride

    After the signing of the Ketubah, light snacks and some hard liquor for the Lechayim - To Life, are served. Remember the "To life - Lechayim," scene from the Fiddler on the Roof?
    In Orthodox Jewish weddings, during this time, in another room, the bride sits like a queen*, on a throne-like, especially decorated chair. She is surrounded by her family and friends, receiving her guests. Following the Lechayim, the groom together with his father and future father-in-law, musicians and male guests walks over to his bride, whom he has not seen for a week and covers her face with her veil. This ceremony is so the groom identifies his bride before the wedding. If Jacob did so, he would not have been conned to marry Leah instead of his beloved Rachel.

    *In Jewish tradition, a bride and groom are akin to king and queen and sit on chairs that are highly decorated to resemble thrones. It is a Mitzvah - commandment and an obligation, to cause the bride and groom to rejoice. This is why in many Jewish wedding celebrations the bride and groom are lifted on their special chairs, by their friends who sing and dance with joy.
    The best way to rejoice with the bride and groom is to express your joy, love and best wishes.

    Chuppah

    The actual Jewish wedding ceremony is conducted under a Chuppah or canopy.
    The chuppah, which is either a tallit - prayer shawl, or a decorated* square of cloth held up by four poles, symbolizes the new home being created by the couple. It is open on all sides, just as Abraham and Sarah had their tent open all sides to welcome friends and relatives in unconditional hospitality. It is customary for the bride and groom to honor four of their best friends and - or siblings ro hold the poles during the ceremony. This adds love, warmth and intimacy to the ceremony. The bride and groom stand under the chuppah during the ceremony, with the bride to the right of the groom. Traditionally, Jewish wedding ceremonies were held out doors under the stars as a reminder of God's blessing, bestowed upon Abraham that his children shall be will be as numerous "as the stars of the heavens."

    In Orthodox Jewish weddings that separate men from women, the groom is led to the chuppah by the 2 fathers or other 2 male relatives, while the bride is led by the mothers. In Conservative and Reform - less restrictive Jewish weddings, the groom is accompanied to the chuppah by his parents and the bride is accompanied to the chuppah by her parents.

    Under the chuppah, the Rabbi recites the marriage blessings and a blessing over wine, and then a blessing that praises and thanks God for giving us laws of sanctity and morality to preserve the sanctity of family life and of the Jewish people.
    Both the bride and the groom then drink from the wine.

    *If you are looking for a great chuppah idea, read the article "Wedding Quilt - Chuppah, A Gift of Love" But instead of creating a quilt, create a chuppah.

    Circling the groom

    Traditionally, though it is not obligatory that the bride alone or with both her mother and the mother of the groom circle the groom. That is go around and around him. Because the number 7 is so significant in Judaism 7 circlings have become the norm. The most beautiful explanation is that in circling him 7 times, the bride enters the 7 spheres of her beloved´s souls.

    The Wedding Ring

    The groom, now takes a plain solid gold ring and places it on the index finger of the bride's right hand and in the presence of two witnesses, recites "Behold you are sanctified to me with this ring, according to the Law of Moses and Israel."
    The ring symbolizes the concept of the groom encompassing, protecting and providing for his wife. After the ring was placed on the bride's index finger, the Ketubah is read aloud and given to the bride.
    At this point, the bride can place a ring on the groom's finger.
    The ring symbolizes the concept of the wholeness of th union and of the groom encompassing, protecting and providing for his wife. The reason for the solid plain unblemished gold ring is three fold.
  • A solid, un-blemished ring represents complete wholeness in the marriage with no holes or obstacles.

  • The bride and groom should consider the marriage and devotion to each other without considering wealth.

  • So every groom could afford to buy a ring for his bride.
  • If the groom is too poor, someone from the community would buy it for him, as the ring given to the bride must belong to the groom and no one else.
    After the ring was placed on the bride's finger, the Ketubah is read aloud and given to the bride.

    Seven Blessings

    The Rabbi recites seven blessing over a full cup of wine. After this, the couple again share in drinking the cup of wine, and the groom breaks a glass by stamping on it.

    Breaking a Glass in Jewish Weddings

    This custom puzzles many who seek explanation. Actually, this custom dates back to Talmudic times, to remind us of the destruction of the holy temple in Jerusalem. Another interpretation given is that the smashing of the glass is irrevocable and permanent. So too should the marriage be. As the bride and groom bond together, the glass should be the last thing to break, between them. Yet another interpretation is that uniting a man and a woman and creating a new family is divine. Thus, even at an occasion of such great rejoicing, one must take measures to ensure that the celebration remains within bounds of propriety and holiness.
    After the breaking of the glass the musicians play and the guests shout "Mazal tov! Mazal tov" - Good Luck. When the bride and groom arrive at the reception, as Mr. and Mrs., everyone joins in dancing around the "king and queen."

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