Budgeting Wedding Costs - Who Pays For What?

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In today's society which is formed by many different cultures, religions, and preferences, it's important to note there really isn't a specific protocol designating which party is responsible for paying for particular wedding expenses. With wedding costs skyrocketing and many couples waiting until their careers are established before getting married, there are several options that can be considered. Sometimes the couple will pay for all of the expenses themselves or ask the families to chip in for the ceremony flowers or bridal attire. Perhaps one of the easiest options may be to divide the total expenses into thirds: one-third for each set of parents and one-third for the couple.

The following is a summary of anticipated wedding expenses for budgeting purposes indicating who traditionally pays for what, while keeping in mind nothing is set in stone:

Bride or Bride's Family:

First engagement party
Bridesmaids' Luncheon
Location Fee
Ceremony Accessories
Reception venue and rentals
Food and Service
Beverages
Cake
Bride's Dress and Alterations
Headpiece and Veil
Bridal Accessories
Hair, Nails, and Makeup
Bridesmaids' Bouquets
Flower Girl's Flowers
Additional Boutonnieres or Corsages
Reception Decorations
Ceremony Decorations
Favors
Ceremony Musicians/Organist
Reception Band/DJ
Photographer's Fee
Videographer's Fee
Additional Prints and Videos
Personal Stationery
Invitations
Response Cards
Thank You Notes
Save the Date Cards
Announcements
Groom's Ring
Limousines and Car Rental
Guest Shuttle/Car Parking
Gifts for Bridal Attendants
Gifts for Parents (Bride and Groom)
Wedding gift for Groom

Groom or Groom's Family:

Second engagement party
Rehearsal Dinner
Marriage License
Officiant's Fee
Groom's Tux
Groom's Accessories
Bride's Bouquet
Mothers' Flowers
Groom/Groomsmen's Boutonnieres
Bride's Ring
Gifts for Groom's Attendants
Gifts for Parents
Wedding gift for Bride
Honeymoon

Wedding Attendants:

Wedding attendants are generally expected to pay for their own attire, travel, and lodging, as well as for the bachelorette/bachelor parties. However, if someone needs financial assistance and it's important to have them to participate in the wedding, then the bridal couple or their families usually help to defray those costs, which would also need to be included in the budget.

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