Showing posts with label Checklist. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Checklist. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

A Checklist for Mothers of the Bride


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The mother of the bride is one of the busiest members of the wedding party prior to, as well as on, the big day. There is so much to think about and so much to do that she needs to put together a checklist for herself in order to make sure everything is covered. No doubt, she'll attend at least one bridal shower for her daughter, and she needs to dress with sophistication in spite of the fact that it is probably a casual affair. Item one on her checklist-as far as clothing goes-is to choose an appropriate outfit for this fun party.

Something simple and fresh is a 3/4 Brocade Jacket and Chiffon Pant Set in heather and black. The soft heather of the brocade jacket is complemented by black buttons and a black ribbon at the waist. The chiffon pants have wide legs for added comfort as she joins in the party games. Everyone will remember the mother of the bride as a woman who is not only friendly and fun but also possesses a great sense of style.

Item two on the checklist is to select something appropriate to wear for the all-important meeting of the groom's parents. The mother of the bride will want to look sophisticated, but friendly when she meets her daughter's new in-laws.

She'll manage to pull off that look in a Short Sleeve Portrait Collar Dress. The fabric is shantung and the style is classic. A portrait color frames her face, and short sleeves give this dress just a hint of casualness-always a friendly touch. Available in softened versions of lime or aqua, this dress offers a semi-pleated skirt that will make Mom's legs look great, and the tie at her waist will give her a slim silhouette.

If the bride's parents wish, they can host a reception for the happy couple in their home. Item three on Mom's checklist is to select a lovely dress for this semi-formal event: something comfortable but just a bit sexy. A Portrait Collar Knit Dress with Lace Skirt is just the thing. This is a very feminine dress from the portrait collar that extends off the shoulders, down the slimming waist to the knee-skimming black lace skirt. Beads adorn the slim skirt, giving her just enough shimmer to catch the eye-and hold it.

When it's time to head for the church to rehearse the ceremony, Mom will want to dress appropriately. Item four on her check list will be to find just the right outfit for this important event.

A Three Quarter Sleeve Shantung Short Jacket Dress in blue or light mocha will do the trick. This is a two-piece outfit with a sleeveless tank dress under a bolero jacket that has three-quarter length sleeves. The mandarin collar of the jacket is accented with beads, as is the waist of the dress. The hemline of this lovely outfit skims just above her knees.

A dress for the rehearsal dinner is item five on the checklist, and it should be something elegant and flattering. A little black dress is always appropriate for this type of event. Mom might like a Tea-Length Dress with Ruffle Collar and Bow Detail. This dress is made of taffeta, so it's lightweight. Ruffles adorn the neckline, spilling across and down the bodice to a lovely bow at the waist. The skirt is slightly full-enough to rustle gently as she rises to toast her daughter and her husband-to-be.

The sixth and final item on the mother of the bride's checklist is the dress she'll wear to the ceremony. This must be a garment that tells the world who she is. Of course, the style of this important dress will depend on the nature of the ceremony. Is it formal or casual? Is it an evening ceremony or mid-afternoon?

An afternoon wedding might call for a Two Piece Floral Jacquard Suit with Rosette Detail. This lovely outfit features a jacket with a portrait collar, a single rosette detail on the button, and three-quarter length sleeves. The skirt is slender and falls to the knees. The fabric is silver jacquard with a lovely floral print that shimmers in the sunlight of this glorious day. When she wears this suit, Mom will shimmer, too.

For a formal evening wedding, the mother of the bride might choose a One-Shoulder Sueded Charmeuse Side Drape Dress. This is a dramatic look in a subtle shade of gold. The dress is made of sueded charmeuse fabric, draping from one shoulder in an elegant shimmering fall of gold. It's a slim dress, with just a slight flare below the knees.

Mom will look sophisticated and elegant as she escorted down the aisle to take her place at the front of the church. Until her daughter enters, every eye will be on the beautiful woman in the front row. And that is as it should be.




Grant Vera is a freelance writer who writes about weddings and specific products such as mother of the bride dresses.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Bridesmaid Checklist - Bridesmaid Duties and Responsibilities


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The title of "bridesmaid" is an important honor that a married woman-to-be usually bestows upon her best friend or close relative. Besides assisting the bride with the planning of her wedding, calming her fears, and sharing the excitement, there are certain responsibilities and duties that a bridesmaid should become familiar with.

As the wedding dates slowly approaches, there are plenty of thought-out plans to last-minute preparations that a bridesmaid faces. Things need ordering, items picked up, and invitations sent out. Depending on the level of your involvement, you can become a true life saver or make things worse with your frantic approach. Below you will find a few things to keep in mind when given the responsibility and respect of holding the "bridesmaid" position. You may or not be given these tasks to complete, but it is a good thing to make a list and go over the bride's expectations.

Planning

A bridesmaid may help with finding a location for the wedding; ordering flowers; organizing the theme of the wedding; picking out the invitations and addressing them; shopping for decorations, selecting food and beverage, situating the seating arrangement; helping decide who to invite; purchasing the gifts for the maid-of-honor and bridesmaid gifts; and purchasing bachelorette party gifts and bridal shower mementos.

Dresses

The bridesmaid may assist the bride in picking out the dresses worn during the ceremony, as well as help her make a final decision on the dress she will wear on her special day. A bridesmaid may attend all of the bride's fittings and give her constructive criticism. It is also important that the bridesmaid attend all of her fittings so the bride doesn't have to worry whether or not the bridesmaid dresses are a bust. It is also the responsibility of the bridesmaid to pick up her dress, try it on once again, and inspect the item to make sure there are no mistakes or flaws.

Wedding Shower

Before the wedding shower, a bridesmaid should make sure all of the favors are purchased. She should pick out a dress and decide what sort of gift she will bring, such as a naughty piece of lingerie for the honeymoon. The theme should be in place, decorations ordered and picked up on time. An array of games should be chosen and on hand for during the shower. Allotting various tasks to additional bridesmaids makes the process much easier. Food, drinks, and music are also details to consider.

During the wedding shower, it is important to arrive early for setup. You may also write down which presents came from whom, to make sending thank-you notes for the bride easier to accomplish. A bridesmaid also stays behind to help with the cleanup process.

Rehearsal Dinner

The bridesmaid may help the bride plan when and where the rehearsal dinner will take place. A dress is needed to attend this event. You should also come early to help with the setup and decorations. Bridesmaids may need to have an informal toast prepared for the dinner and be on hand for cleanup.

Wedding Day

It is important to make sure that all the necessary makeup, dresses, and shoes are in place and accessible for the big day. Bridesmaids should arrive early for picture taking and to lend a helping hand to a bride who might be quite nervous. Bridesmaids may also help direct guests to their assigned seats; meet and greet guests after the ceremony; and help with clean up if needed.




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Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Bride's Attire Checklist


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Here's a Checklist of items to make sure you have ready to wear on your Wedding Day.

Wedding Gown- This will be what everyone ooh's and ahh's over, and the centerpiece of your outfit. Everything else will complement the dress. Decide whether you want formal or more casual, traditional white or ivory, or something modern with a bit of color.

Veil- There are many styles to choose from. Find a length and style that matches your dress style. If your dress has a splash of color, you can find a veil with a matching color trim.

Blusher- This is the part of the veil that covers your face as you walk up the aisle. Not everybody uses these now, but it's a great traditional look. This might be part of the veil, or it might be a second veil that's placed in your hair in front of the longer one.

Headpiece- This is your chance to wear a tiara. Find one you love.

Hair Pins (if needed)- Fancy hairpins can add a lot to your look. Find some with pearls, or ones that match your dress or just your personality. If everyone knows how much you love butterflies, why not have a few small silver butterflies worked into your hairdo.

Jewelry- Your groom may give you a gift of jewelry, so keep that in mind. Tell him ahead of time what you are planning on wearing. Pearls are a classic choice, but go as fancy or as simple as you like.

Gloves- If you choose to wear them, elbow-length white gloves are very classy.

Shoes- Make sure you can walk in your shoes. I've seen brides in white flip flops- I think that's a great idea. Make sure you wear your shoes at your dress fitting. They're going to be mostly covered by your dress, so don't stress too much about these. You're going to be standing a lot on the big day, dancing, walking around. You don't want terrible blisters for your honeymoon.

Wrap or Coat for winter months- A white velvet cape would be lovely, or a white faux fur wrap.

Small Handbag- Keep your essentials in here, such as lipstick, breath mints. You probably won't carry this for most of the day, but it is nice to have.

Petticoat/Slip- This is going to vary with the type of dress you have, but you will want something to go under the dress. The petticoat can add a lot of fullness to the skirt.

Bra/Lingerie- This is another thing to make sure you have with you for your dress fittings. Something supportive that doesn't peek out of the dress, that doesn't slip or fall, and that you can breathe in.

Hosiery- Don't forget to get some nice quality hose.

Garter- Don't forget to buy a garter if you wish to do a garter toss at the reception.

This is a good general checklist. Your needs may vary, but these are the basics of bridal attire.




-Minnie

Minnie is a Wedding Advice guru specializing in advice for the Modern Bride. Her articles can be read daily at Modern Wedding Advice- http://navillus99.blogspot.com Modern Wedding Advice is now available at http://www.modernweddingadvice.com

 

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