Father of the Bride - Wedding Toasts - The Pressure is On, Are You Ready

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There may not be any more important event in your daughter's life than her wedding. As the father of the bride, wedding toasts are a key point where you can impact how she remembers that day. It's tricky though, because there are so many aspects that need to be crammed into a few short moments.

Of course you want to convey how you feel about your daughter. You want to let her know how much you care about her, how much she means to you, and how much you've enjoyed the years you had together. You want her to know that you are happy for her, but that you're also going to miss her.

You want to let everyone there know how pleased you are to have your daughter marrying her new husband. You want them all to know how grateful you are that they've come to enjoy this special occasion with you. You want your family to know that they are important.

You don't want to sound like you're rambling, which can happen even if you diligently planned out your speech. Sometimes emotions can get in the way, but often times the weight of trying to get so much into a compact format is just too much.

You don't want to sound like you didn't plan your speech. Of course you will have spent time going over it to try to make the toast as special for the bride as you can. But even with all the work you might still be left searching for words.

In perfect world, your speech would come off sounding professional and personal, practiced and natural all at once. It might seem that most of that is in the delivery, but even more it's about the writing of the speech in the first place. You can get the delivery part down through practice and repetition - use a mirror, and then a mini-audience if you can.

On the writing front, your best bet is to start with a pre-written speech from a professional and then customize from there. You'll be guaranteed something that's been carefully crafted to leave exactly the type of impression you'd like to make. It'll move along at a decent pace, but not skip any of the important things. And at the end of the day a professionally written speech will give you the peace of mind that you did the best for your daughter that you could. So do yourself and your loved ones a favor, check these out: Father of the Bride - Wedding Toasts

Your Toast to the Bride & Groom Should Be Original - A Brief Outline and Toast Suggestions

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Wedding speeches can make or break the mood of a wedding. Everyone enjoys the praise, jokes and tasteful jokes that are spoken at these events, except for maybe the groom, who is often the subject of most of the jokes. But that aside, speaking is also one of the hardest things to do well. This article focuses on wedding toasts specifically.

But what is a wedding toast?

A best man toast is someone or something in honor of which people usually have a drink, sometimes following the clinging of glasses together.For example, In a wedding, the bride and groom would be considered to be "the toast of the evening", for whom someone "proposes a toast" to congratulate and for whom the wedding guests "toast" in agreement. It is often thought of as a western culture type event to "Have a drink to..." with reference to a person or event in which to have a drink in celebration of. The toast is simply an extension of this cultural habit.

It is generally accepted that the practice of toasting first originated in Greece, at a time when fear of poisoning was a significant concern to the people. So to put guests at ease, the host would pour the guests' wine from a common decanter, take the first drink to demonstrate its safety, then raise his cup to the guests and invite them to drink in good health.

The word 'toast' became associated with the custom in the 17th century, based on a custom of flavoring drinks with spiced Toast. The word originally referred to the lady in whose honor the drink was proposed, her name being seen as figuratively flavoring the drink.

Now, it is often customary to have a number of toasts throughout an evening.

From an audience's point of view, there's nothing more boring, or laborious than doing the same toast over and over again. We watch television for entertainment and stimulus of our senses, and public speaking is a form of entertainment for the audience, so lets explore a range of toasts to help spice up your speech and keep it original. And again, I highly recommend having at least two different toasts memorized for your wedding speech, just in case your original toast is already used in a previous speech or toast.

They generally follow a brief speech or words about the bride and groom, or bridesmaids. It is also too often spoken, the most unoriginal toast is the only toast in the evening. That is, the words Here's to the bride and groom.

Here's a few ideas:

Here's to health, peace and prosperity. May the flower of love never be nipped by the frost of disappointment, nor shadow of grief fall among your family and friends.

friends love says if you ever need something I'll be there. True love says You'll never need anything I'll be there.

May your love be modern enough to service the times and old fashioned enough to last forever.

May you live as long as you love and love as long as you live

To Happiness, Health, Wealth and Good Fortune

Gareth Berry is a toastmaster and has written wedding speeches that have been published all over the world. He has written and developed speeches, toasts, quotes and other speaking resources to assist with delivering memorable speeches. You can get a collection of his best mans speeches and speaking guides at http://www.ClassicBestManSpeeches.com